What Kind of Leader Are You?

I used to be a little confused about leadership styles and when to use different ones so I was glad that this week I learned about four different styles of leadership. They depend on how relationship and task oriented you are as a leader and also on the maturity and commitment level of the followers. 1) Directing-uses one way communication, low relationship, high task. Leader has the final say. Followers are immature and not very committed. I've seen and used directive leadership in marching band. As the drum major of the marching band I called out commands and the band members were expected to follow. It was very one way communication and I relationship was low with my peers. I think that I had to use this type of leadership in that case because the maturity and commitment level was not high. I didn't really like using this type of leadership. I know that it's necessary sometimes, but I felt like I wasn't very nice when I was commanding and distant. 2) Coaching-more two way communication, high relationship and also high task. Followers are committed, but immature. "Let's talk, then coach decides." When I think of coaching I think of my friend Nils who taught me how to play tennis. He expected a lot of me, but we were great friends too. He was very encouraging, but gave lots of suggestions for how to improve at the same time. I felt like this was a good way of leading because I was immature in playing tennis, but committed to learning it. 3) Supporting- high relationship, low directive. The members are mature and committed. Basically the leader says, "I'm here to help you. I'll be here with you the whole time." Let's talk and followers decide. I was once on a Stake Dance Committee lead by Sister Gren. As a group we picked the theme, what decorations we wanted, and what food we would have. Sister Gren would go buy what we needed and them we put it together. She listened and let us talk control. She was a supportive leader. 4) Delegating-low relationship, low task, where one simply delegates and doesn't allow the followers to do what they've been asked. Followers are mature and somewhat committed. Followers decide. I've used delegating in group projects. We got together and I assigned each person a topic to research. They sent me their information and I put it into a slide show. I wasn't super involved in what they were doing, but they did what they were asked.

What kind of leadership style do I use when I teach? Definitely not directive-I don't just tell people to make comments and participate. No, it's a lot of two-way communication. I would say that their isn't a totally perfect fit, but that the leadership style that I use is a mix between supportive and delegating. I would say that I use the supportive more though. Last time I taught I asked the class to pick someone who they thought was the strongest person in the class. They got to talk for a moment and pick. That person came and helped me. They generally make comments without me asking and I see how I learn from and expand on what they say. We work together. I ask a lot of questions for them to answer. 

Well, I've learned a ton this week!

The R.A.C.E. is On!

Follow-up from last week: I didn't get on groovshark to listen to music at all this week. I did get on facebook a couple of times, but I made sure that it was after I have done my homework. I think I'll keep on doing it this way.


R.A.C.E. is an acronym for research, action plan, carry out, and evaluation. I feel like this is vital to my leadership role as a Gospel Doctrine teacher. I go through each step every time I give the lesson. Research includes printing out the lesson, reading and studying the assigned scriptures, and reading and studying the lesson material.


Next I make an action plan. There is always way too much material in the lesson than we can possibly have meaningful discussions about in class so I have to decide what will be most relevant to the class members. Also part of action plan is knowing what direction I see the lesson going, what I'll say and point out about certain verses of scripture, what questions I will ask, and what activities or object lessons I will use. The action plan also consists of prayer and the Spirit because both of these are needed to teach the Gospel.


One thing I want to mention-I've noticed that Saturday is the hardest day for me to study the scriptures. Perhaps it's because there is not structure to the day. I also think it's because Satan doesn't want to me prepare spiritually for the next day-Sunday. Part of being an effective Gospel Doctrine teacher is regularly doing personal scripture study-not the scriptures that will be taught in class. I am making a goal to read scriptures that first thing I do Saturday morning.


The next part of R.A.C.E is carry out-do it! For me this part comes on Sunday at about 1:30pm. I give the lesson, we have discussions, and if I have prepared adequately and have gained a personal testimony of the doctrine that I am teaching then the lesson usually goes well. It never goes the way I exactly plan it, but that is expected. In sum, I give the lesson the best way I know how-of course trying to implement the public speaking skills I learned a couple of weeks ago.


Lastly, I evaluate. How do I evaluate how well the lesson went? There are a couple of things that I look at. First, I can feel it. I can feel when the Spirit is there. Next, usually I can tell that class members are learning and having a good experience when they participate by making comments, and answering/asking questions. Thirdly, I know that it is going well when I feel comfortable being myself as I teach. Fourthly, I can talk to Matt about the lesson and we can collaborate on how to better meet the needs of the class members.


R.A.C.E is a great tool and I want to make a goal to take more time to evaluate after the lesson is over.

Yesterday's Lesson

I taught a lesson yesterday and really tried to implement the public speaking skills that we learned. I started the lesson with an attention grabber. I began, "Who here owns a backpack?" Everyone raised their hands because every student has a backpack. I made remarked on how heavy our backpacks can sometimes be and in fact that a backpack is a physical burden. Then we did an activity with a backpack and rocks. Our lesson was about how the Lord invites us to come unto him and take his yoke upon us because His burden is light and easy. I asked someone to help be the scribe and we listed some things on the board. There was a lot of participation and I felt the Spirit. The last ten or so minutes we read the story of Mary anointing Christ's feet. I felt strongly about what I was teaching and I could see people's eyes start to water. My eyes swelled with tears. I concluded with my testimony. We had all been spiritually fed.

As far as time management goes, I did okay last week except that I forgot to do this blog before midnight on Saturday, but at least I could tell you about how the lesson went on Sunday. I learned what I basically knew before. I use my time well when I study at school and I don't when I am at my apartment or are on facebook. I use my planner every more fervently and have set some important goals for this week. One of my goals for this week is to work and study for the important, but not urgent things-like my Book of Mormon and Pearl of Great Price tests next week. I also I have a goal to do the big things first before getting on facebook or listening to grooveshark. The analogy about the rocks and sand in a jar really made sense to me. 

Follow Up and Public Speaking

My goal was to set up a time to meet with Matt, the other Gospel Doctrine teacher in my ward, to talk about our class, goals, and how we can be more effective. Matt and I are meeting Sunday morning before church to go over a class theme that we want to present to the class this Sunday.

I learned some good stuff about public speaking from Diona M. Wilson. First off-what a spunky, fun lady! I loved her enthusiasm and cheerful attitude! I really enjoyed the then tips for public speakers that she taught. She said that we need to know our audience by doing some audience analysis. My class is full of BYU students who live at Wyview. Most of them, if not all, are in a low income situation. Their lives are mostly comprised of class, homework, friends, roommates, BYU activities, and callings. They live busy lives and sometimes get little sleep. Relationships with the Lord and friends, having fun, and doing well in school are among some of their priorities. Some current events in their community: Jimmer and the BYU Basketball team, Midterms, but mostly Jimmer. Each of them are talented in their own way, have a desire to excel, have fun, and be accepted.  

Something else that I learned was to never start a talk or lesson with "Today, I'm going to talk to you about...." There should always be a great grab-a story, an impressive fact, a current event, an activity, etc. I need to think more creatively about a grab for starting the lesson in Sunday School. Usually the lesson gives an "Attention Activity," but I can come up with something more attention grabbing for college students.

Public speaking is a huge part of my leadership role and this was very helpful.